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Oct 24 2009

Resist the Hype While Taking Advantage of Social Media in Your Selling

Published by Jonathan Farrington at 11:56 am under General

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Have you received this SPAM email yet that I received recently?

“Do you sell? Do you still waste time and money meeting with prospects face to face?  Are you still cold calling, using snail mail, or off-line advertising looking for business?

If so, you’re already out of business and are just too dumb to recognize it.

Today’s smart salespeople recognize and understand the power of Sales 2.0.  They understand that 20th century selling is dead and if they’re still trying to sell that way, they’re dead too.  They understand that social media is not only the wave of the future; it’s the wave of today.

If you think you can outsmart the market, you can’t.  If you think that because you’ve been successful using outdated prospecting and sales methods in the past you can continue to be successful in today’s market using those same methods, you’re wrong.

Don’t let some ‘guru’ sell you some outdated idea of how to sell that no longer works.

We are one of the premier companies helping independent sellers like you capture the power of the internet.  Formed by a core of three young, visionary, brilliant entrepreneurs, we are not bound by the blinders of what’s worked in the past but are instead in tune with the future.  We’re not trapped by history.”

The email goes on in the same vein, selling the idea that the world has changed and what has worked for sellers in the past will no longer work today—and this company will, of course, help sellers learn how to forget all they’ve been taught and learn the “new” way of selling, the way that’s easier, more productive, that eliminates having to deal with prospects and customers face to face, that uses the tools of social media to prospect, sell, and service.

If you get this or a similar email, delete it immediately.  It’s a deceit.  I don’t mean it’s deceitful in the sense the people connected with the company don’t believe what they’re saying.  They very well may believe every word they write.  But what they believe is wrong.  They misunderstand what’s going on in the marketplace.

I’m sure you are at least somewhat familiar with the idea of social media.  Certainly if you’re reading this article on a blog or off a website, you’re internet active.

The authors of the above email are correct in the sense that social media is here to stay and its influence will continue to grow.  Where they have gone wrong is in believing that social media is capable of changing the nature of our world.  That is, that social media can change human nature.  It can’t.

Certainly if you are selling a commodity, you may find a larger and larger share of your market purchasing off the internet without any interaction with a human being—or just minimal interaction via email or instant messaging.  However, if you are selling anything other than a commodity, the majority of your market is still going to want to deal with real humans.  Yes, a small percentage of your market may be happy making a major purchase without involving a human, but most will not.  It’s human nature to want to deal with a human, to be able to ask questions and get immediate, personal answers, to negotiate face to face or at least earpiece to mouthpiece.

Consequently, those “20th century” prospecting and sales skills will be just as valid in 2030 as they were in 1990.  Our technology may change, our nature won’t.

As buyers, we may take advantage of researching our potential purchase on the internet prior to connecting with a human, but that human connection will remain vital for the majority of us.  We may use social media to help find potential suppliers, but it can’t flesh out the relationship we need with the supplier.

As sellers we may use social media to let prospects know who we are and what our capabilities are, but we must still interact to understand their individual needs, wants, issues, and problems.  We can begin to connect but we can’t analyze or develop a solution based on the shallowness of a virtual relationship. We can use social media to gain attention but it can’t go to the depths we must go to develop the trust and loyalty we must have to sustain a business long-term.  

There have been those who have predicted in the past that technology would fundamentally change the way we sell.  They’ve been wrong time after time.  When the telephone came on the scene there were some who predicted that salespeople would never again have to spend time and money meeting their prospects and clients face to face.  They were wrong.

For some, the fax machine was the key to freeing sellers from having to meet face to face with prospects and clients.  Now they could transact their business over the phone and when it came time to get the contract signed, all they’d have to do was fax it to the client, have them sign it, and then fax it back.  Didn’t happen.

For others it was email and then instant messaging that would be the magic technology to change sales.  We could now carry on a complete conversation while in the middle of doing other things.  We could even send documents, pictures, even audio and video.  Not only could we do everything via technology that we do face to face, we wouldn’t have our ego on the line as in a face to face meeting, so negotiations would go quicker and more smoothly.  Wrong.

For the majority of us who sell in a defined geographic area, meeting face to face will still be the crux of our business.  For those of us who sell on a broader field, the phone may be our primary communication tool, but building a deep relationship will still be the crux of our sales activity.

There are a gazillion social media experts haunting the social media sites looking to pick up new clients.  One of the things I’ve noticed about a great many of them is their age—young, very young.  There is certainly nothing wrong with being young and one might expect younger people to be more attuned to the new technology than someone older.

But there is a serious problem with youth (this is not to dismiss the advantages of youth—I’d like to have a bit more youth than I have)–a lack of experience, or as the email above proudly puts it, “not trapped by history.”

The young are not trapped by history as some of us longer in the tooth may be.  But at the same time youth lacks a grounding that experience gives.  Although I did not live through the expectations that the telephone would free salespeople from having to meet with prospects and clients face to face (I’m not THAT old), I have lived through the introduction of the fax, email, instant messaging, blogs, Twitter, Facebook, and the other social media.  I’ve lived through several “revolutions” in sales that never materialized.

In January of 2007 I had written a post encouraging sellers to learn more effective prospecting strategies as preparation for a quickly coming recession.  Of course, at that time the economy was doing well.  I received emails from a couple of young MBA’s claiming that I didn’t understand the “new economy” where there was no longer a fear of recession or a slowing of the economy.  These young MBA’s suffered from the same problem our young authors of the above email suffer from–a lack of historical perspective.  They believed they were experiencing something new, something revolutionary.  They weren’t, of course.

There are some great social media coaches out there—some of them young.  Most social media experts recognize the limits of social media and actively work to help you meld your online and offline business activities.

By all means, take advantage of the opportunities offered by social media, just don’t buy into the hype advanced by a few misguided souls who believe technology will change how humans act.  Our technology may be changing but human nature isn’t.  Technology may help you sell but it isn’t fundamentally changing how you sell.

 

Paul McCord is the president of McCord and Associates, a Houston, Texas based international sales training, coaching, and consulting company. He is the author of the Amazon and Barnes and Noble best-selling book on referral generation, Creating a Million Dollar a Year Sales Income: Sales Success through Client Referrals (John Wiley and Sons, 2008), and SuperStar Selling: 12 Keys to Becoming a Sales SuperStar.

Paul is also a very good chum, and fellow member of the Top Sales Experts Executive Board.

Finally, I urge you to visit his excellent Sales & Sales Management Blog

 

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6 responses so far

6 Responses to “Resist the Hype While Taking Advantage of Social Media in Your Selling”

  1. Paul Castainon 24 Oct 2009 at 6:55 pm

    This was a thought provoking post Paul!

    I think there is a disconnect that exists on both sides of the fence. We have folks that won’t embrace sales 2.0 because they feel that it isn’t “personal” enough. They feel that perhaps we get caught up too much in a virtual world that doesn’t move to real time relationship selling.

    On the other side of the fence, we have those who believe sales 2.0 is THE answer and all artillery fire needs to be focused on our online activities.

    The disconnect lies in the premise that this is a choice between the two and not inclusive of the two in a well balanced “sales mix”

    I believe another disconnect exists and that has to do with our buyers today. You and I (maybe even Jonathan) aren’t getting any younger . . . but buyers and those who can influence buying decisions are. Guess where the bulk of these Generation Y folks like to visit as part of their selection criteria? Social Media. Its very important to them (and a growing number of older folk like me) that they can get to know a brand (especially a personal brand) and interact with it. You can bet they will Google a company and the individual who wishes to do business with them.

    The sad part is, the well versed professional who has superior relationship skills more than likely will not have a chance (or as many chances) to use those muscle groups if they aren’t utilizing ALL the weapons in their sales arsenal.

    Bottom line . . . why limit ourselves.

    Thank you again for such a thought provoking post!

    With respect and appreciation,
    Paul Castain

  2. Paul McCordon 24 Oct 2009 at 10:00 pm

    Paul,

    I agree wholeheartedly that we sellers must embrace both online and offline marketing and prospecting.

    Unfortunately there are far too many our age that resist Sales 2.0 thinking that ‘their’ prospects are Sales 2.0 kinda folks. As you point out, most everyone we call on–whether business or consumer and irrespective of age–will Google ou8r company and us to find out who we are, what our reputation is, and who we deal with. Most go well beyond a simple Google search. If we’re not engaging at least some of the Sales 2.0 media we’re leaving a great deal of money on the table.

    Likewise, those younger folks who naturally absorb Sales 2.0 cannot ignore the in-depth relationship that has been requisite to successful sales in the past. My kids are all in their 20′s and a small sampling of them and their friends indicate that the internet is by far their preferred search tool when they considering almost any purchase, but after they’ve made their initial selections of potential sources, they’re right back to a one-on-one relationship that ultimately drives the purchase decision.

    And, of course, your bottom-line is right on the mark–we simply cannot afford to limit ourselves.

    Paul

  3. Mike Kelleron 25 Oct 2009 at 8:25 am

    Hi Paul,
    I enjoyed your post, it is very informative. I too do agree with what you are saying but, I also believe in good old fashioned face to face sales. I heard a kid call that “snail sales” but a mix of both is a home run!
    Have fun!
    Mike Keller
    author
    http://www.lifeinaweek.com

  4. Paul McCordon 25 Oct 2009 at 10:21 am

    Paul,

    I agree wholeheartedly that we sellers must embrace both online and offline marketing and prospecting.

    Unfortunately there are far too many our age that resist Sales 2.0 thinking that ‘their’ prospects are Sales 2.0 kinda folks. As you point out, most everyone we call on–whether business or consumer and irrespective of age–will Google ou8r company and us to find out who we are, what our reputation is, and who we deal with. Most go well beyond a simple Google search. If we’re not engaging at least some of the Sales 2.0 media we’re leaving a great deal of money on the table.

    Likewise, those younger folks who naturally absorb Sales 2.0 cannot ignore the in-depth relationship that has been requisite to successful sales in the past. My kids are all in their 20′s and a small sampling of them and their friends indicate that the internet is by far their preferred search tool when they considering almost any purchase, but after they’ve made their initial selections of potential sources, they’re right back to a one-on-one relationship that ultimately drives the purchase decision.

    And, of course, your bottom-line is right on the mark–we simply cannot afford to limit ourselves.

    Paul
    BTW I love your blog!

  5. Neil Warrenon 25 Oct 2009 at 6:03 pm

    I think the other point (author) Paul, is that we need to be aware that some aspects of human behaviour are, in fact, changing with the technologies.

    I guess I’m about your age too, and have witnessed the similar changes you outline. I’ve been selling media products for most of my life, from dinky little one-off classified slots for £5 up to annual contracts in the tens of thousands. And over that time period (mid 70’s to today) I’ve also noticed the boundary or envelope of both the complexity and value of product or service that buyers are happy, or even expect, to research, discuss, buy and maintain by way of a trust relationship with the seller (me), without a face-to-face, has equally expanded.

    This reflects, in my opinion, not only the increasing hurdles of expense and time (theirs and mine) taken to meet prospects in the flesh, but also the “trust” element that people do in fact allow with their “virtual” contacts. More and more deals, up to some of those valued in tens of thousands, have become quite acceptable, to both of us, via a combination of digital (voice and keyboard) communication. And I’m witnessing an increasing use of these technologies, from webinars and GoToMeeting type presentations through to “invitations for live chat” on websites like Aprimo (complex online marketing and sales systems), that reflect anything but the “shallowness of a virtual relationship” that you refer to. These are serious conversations and deals being agreed, between real decision makers, with in-depth understanding, trust and relationships. We’re just finding the new technologies more convenient that the old.

    I agree that it’s never going to be a polarised, either/or, black and white situation (unless the commodity or service is, like second-hand novel versus new fighter air force) but, equally, I think it’s worth us all being aware that these are shifting sands, so that the circumstances and possibilities are changing too.

    And sales training, as an area dear to many a heart around here, will be a classic example of exactly this. I do, for example, expect to see a significant proportion of the new generation of e-Sales executives researching, negotiating, buying and executing their sales and technology training package entirely online, with possibly a telecoms supplement, without ever physically meeting a trainer at all. And, if that can happen, then it won’t be long before the VP Sales or Sales Director similarly agrees a multi-thousand $/£ package with the supplier to train the rest of his/her staff.

    Kind regards – Neil

  6. Paul Simonon 25 Oct 2009 at 8:27 pm

    Excellent discourse. May I suggest you tune into a Masterclass (Webinar) this coming Thursday that David Brookmire will present on behalf of Top Sales Experts. It’s called “Generation Does Matter: Understanding Your Customers’ Preferences” and he will discuss results of a new study about about how the different generations of customers prefer to participate in the sales process. This is just a great topic that readers of this blog can attend for free by registering at http://bit.ly/2pVoF6.

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